This is a very thoughtful post this week on Grist by David Roberts.
Roberts writes about a way of thinking about life he calls the “medium chill.” It’s an internal attitude, he writes, that can help sustain a happy and peaceful life. At the start of his post, he pivots off a Mother Jones piece about external, structural factors that have made the U.S. economy an increasingly stressful place to make a living. This, he said, got him thinking about the inner side of things as well:
But it reminded me I’ve been meaning to write something about the other side, the internal forces impelling us to work harder and harder. We are being driven, but we are also driving ourselves. Finding saner, happier, more sustainable lives will involve addressing both sides of the equation.
Roberts then discusses some economics and psychology research, focusing on the concept of satisficing: choosing to be happy with a thing, rather than seeking to accumulate more of that thing. He writes:
Whatever policy or technological advances we may see in coming decades, some part of getting to sustainability is going to be voluntarily living with less space and stuff. We’re going to have to scale down our material expectations and get off the aspirational treadmill. So how can we do that? How can we make satisficing a respected choice, even a source of status itself? How can we make it okay to prioritize social connections over money and choice hoarding?
He offers two concluding thoughts after these questions:
Good questions! I sure wish more people were thinking and talking about it. This post is already way too long, but I’ll conclude with two tentative thoughts about the answers.
First, we won’t get there through shame and guilt. We won’t get there by morally bullying people into giving up stuff they love. People will only downscale materially if they are also upscaling in social connections and positive experiences. So rather than focusing on the former, let’s focus on the latter. We have all sorts of infrastructure and institutions available for people who want to learn how to get a better job or make more money. But we have lamentably little for people who want to know how to foster more and better relationships, how to find meaning and a sense of accomplishment.
Second, if you’re going to de-emphasize the material in favor of the social, you’re going to be talking about places. If we want people to own and consume less privately, we need to provision safe, accessible, pleasant public spaces and resources. But you probably knew I’d say that.
Anyway, that’s the medium chill. I’d love to hear your thoughts and, best of all, your stories about what the medium chill looks like in your life.
Roberts’ post really got me thinking. I think that Buddhism has been a place where people have been working out answers to these questions for a while now, with some very interesting and useful results. For me, Buddhism has been a helpful way of addressing these issues in my own life. Mathieu Ricard in particular has written about how mind training can help build one’s capacities for compassion and happiness (see his lovely podcast with Krista Tippett on this).
I think the point about place is also a very interesting one. I think the issue of “safe, accessible, pleasant public spaces” is really important to highlight, and one I haven’t personally paid enough attention to. I think Roberts makes a good point that the nature of the public spaces in our communities can have an impact on the moral and political life of our communities.
In closing, I’d like to note that Buddhism offers what is to me a compelling narrative of the “medium chill,” through the concept of the “middle way.” As Wikipedia explains:
The Middle Way or Middle Path (Pali: majjhimā paṭipadā; Sanskrit: madhyamā-pratipad; )[1] is the descriptive term that Siddhartha Gautama used to describe the character of the path he discovered that led to liberation. It was coined in the very first teaching that he delivered after his enlightenment.[2] In this sutta – known in English as The Setting in Motion of the Wheel of Dharma – the Buddha describes the middle way as a path of moderation between the extremes of sensual indulgence and self-mortification. This, according to him, was the path of wisdom. The middle path does not mean a mid point in a straight line joining two extremes represented by points. The Middle Way is a dynamic teaching as shown by the traditional story that the Buddha realized the meaning of the Middle Way when he sat by a river and heard a lute player in a passing boat and understood that the lute string must be tuned neither too tight nor too loose to produce a harmonious sound.
I really like the image of the lute string.